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tq for nice article,

By: Mery

Mery — Thu, 25 Jul 2013 23:03:37 +0000

Hey Andy!

It’s an interesting article, It helped me a lot because I did not know that I’m a little bit neurotic from time to time and I know I can handle it, but only If I know that there’s something wrong with my personality, keep the good balance between these two extreme personality types is the key for succeed.

Keep up with your excelent work!!!

Mery

By: Behnaz

Behnaz — Thu, 25 Jul 2013 10:21:15 +0000

hey ,Andy
I don’t know that I am neurotic or not?I always sad of the past , I think that I missed good opportunities in my life.Would you please tell me whether it is a kind of neurotic or not?
I would be grateful if you inform me about self confidence.
Tnx

By: ulasha

ulasha — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 13:24:44 +0000

Hey, Andy!
I am neurotic sometimes, but fortunatelly not every time.

I guess people with character disoder live in easier way, couse they never blame themselves and feel thte are right(even if they are wrong). They turn away all negative they have. But poor these who are in relationships with them…

By: wake_up_and_be_awsome

wake_up_and_be_awsome — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 12:14:13 +0000

The mind can be diverted from gloomy preoccupations by giving it tasks to perform, jobs of difficulty sufficient to demand all of its powers of concentration.

By: Ivan Kolev

Ivan Kolev — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 10:37:31 +0000

Hello Andy. Very interesting blog, I’m glad I found the time to write Something.
First I want to say something about Eastern medicine. For many years I was treated this way. maybe 15 years since I’m not took pills and other medications.
How I treat then if I get sick ? The first and most important thing is the thought, the brain. why? If you think you are ill you will get sick if you think you are healthy and act like a healthy guy, you’ll be healthy. So when you feel sick, cold or whatever it is you have to say I’m healthy. Personally, I started training more than twice the normal. I take a lot of natural herbs and live as healthy. my mind is like a healthy person. One thing is garlic. And natural vitamins from fruits.
I want to say about self discipline,more precisely neurotic and character disorder.

I think that for the most part I am neurotic. But not just as Andy describes it here. I always look for errors first, first at me, that’s correct I think if you’re with common sense. But I do not blame myself and say that I failed, I take it as a lesson and something to learn. There is a proverb …. is not wrong to trip over a stone, it is wrong if we stumble into it-the same stone twice or three times. to repeat the error.
I hate people who are Character disorder.
They are poor people, they never for anything not guilty. And they envy the success of others because they are losers in life. I know many such people, this type of person can never be my friend and be around me.

By: Yuri

Yuri — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 08:19:54 +0000

Thank you, Andy! I always like to read your blogs. They are useful in both aspects: to learn English and understanding lift situations. I think, itch reasonable human, reading this your blog, has a possibility to look deep inside his (her) core and think about. I enjoy of your blogs!!!

By: Isa

Isa — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 07:40:26 +0000

Hello Andy
It’s really interesting topic.I need to know it.we sometimes forget that self discipline is absolutely important for us.In my opinion I have both of personality.As you said we need balance in our life.
It was a good article.thanks so much. Isa from Bandar Abbas Iran.

By: Negar,Iran

Negar,Iran — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 01:32:08 +0000

Great points were pointed out here. Thank you guys.
Nothing could be more annoying than sitting around and spending time aimlessly for hours and hours. As u said, one adverse consequence of wasting time in this way is feeling guilty to the extent that we might even hate ourselves. It is really an unpleasant and annoying sense, but it can also become a motive to make good plans for the couple of next days and take these plans more seriously.By having self-discipline, feeling guilty can be easily replaced by feeling self-satisfaction and even great sense of personal fulfillment.
In regard with the second part of article, I must say, At times, I am kind of neurotic person. Naturally, I myself am not happy about it, especially with regard to others’ unhappy happenings, but unfortunately, it seems that part of my personality has been formed in this way unconsciously and it is interesting that others accept the blames I put on myself even for their own faults. Feeling guilty for everything bad happing around u, is totally stupid and of course, unfair. Therefore, I am giving it a try to move away from this extreme and somehow make balance between being neurotic and having personality disorder. To me, it is true that both extremes are unhealthy, but the neurotic person would suffer more deeply than the person having disorder character. According to my personal experience, low self-confidence in some aspects is the major factor bringing about being neurotic person.

By: Kobe

Kobe — Tue, 23 Jul 2013 00:30:27 +0000

Hey Andy, I think I am already is neurotic. I always do blame myself, even sometimes something have been passed for a long time, well I don’t know for some reason I always recall them and think of how stupid I was! Something even happened in my childhood.I just wish if this stuff would not have happened to me, but it already done.